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Looking for love?

I’ve been single almost 3,5 years now. I didn’t have anyone to call “mine” since the divorce finalized and I’m mostly OK with that. Some days I am sad that I don’t have someone to share my life with. To share gaming with. To geek out with. To make nerdy references together. To watch all the extended versions of the Hobbit and Lord of the Rings and then… Start again after we’ve finished the Return of the King… ๐Ÿ˜Š

I know my health issues make me more difficult and different than others. I would like to think it also makes me more unique and special. But my exes have only called me special when I could provide for them. When I lost that ability, they lost interest in me. And I’ve tried dating apps but so far, it’s been failing me and I have given up for now. Focusing on different things in life and if I happen to find a beautiful geeky nerdy gamer person, I hope the feelings will be mutual. ๐Ÿ˜Š

What do I look for in a person?

I’m bisexual, so I am not just attracted to one “type” of person… I’ve been with a man and a woman. I enjoyed both, until things went wrong that is. I do like to think that sharing some mutual loves and interests in hobbies and all help to forge a good bond. And I guess with the “things” I’m looking for, there’s a small group of people that fall into that… Making chances even smaller that one of them may actually like me.

So yeah, I’ll just share some of my interests here, many or most you will already know as a long time reader, as I’ve been writing about them ๐Ÿ˜‰.

Must love Labradors…… ๐Ÿ˜Š

I love good movies. There are several I watch every year, at least once… Lord of the Rings & the Hobbit (all extended), yes please! The Hunger Games series always cheers me up when I’m down. Jurassic Park is also still a big favorite series. Of course I can’t go without Harry Potter. And then there’s Staw Wars in my favorites cabinet as well. One series that may surprise you is the Saw ones ๐Ÿ˜‰. And I also love good animation movies, like Shrek, The Nightmare before Christmas, Monsters Inc, the Minions movies… ๐Ÿ˜Š

I also enjoy all sorts of TV series. My favorites being Star Trek, Downton Abbey, NCIS NY, 24, Criminal Minds, Murder She Wrote, Numb3rs, Lie to me, Farscape, Battlestar Galactica (new series), Babylon 5, the X-Files, The Golden Girls, Alias, Cagney & Lacey…. Just to name a few! There are so many different series that I love to watch and re-watch… ๐Ÿ˜Š

I enjoy reading, preferably in English. I do loads in English, I have my PlayStation set to it, I use English subs for TV shows and movies and yeah, 99% of the books I have are also English.

I enjoy different kinds of music. My long time favorite band has always been Music โ€“ Roxette. But I also enjoy many more bands, mostly pop, rock and metal. Ow and I enjoy classic movie soundtracks. ๐Ÿ˜Š Lately I’ve been listening to loads of songs by Music โ€“ Presence of Mind (Dynazty). ๐Ÿ˜Š

Last but not least, I love walking, especially when possible, through woods and all… Just before my surgery I walked 14km while on a very short vacation, I wrote about it here: Hiking โ€“ Greifenstein-Beilstein. So it would be nice if we could share the active walking/hiking and maybe fitness love? ๐Ÿ˜‰

While I know it’s extremely difficult to find someone that matches all my likes and loves, I do hope that special person is out there and looking for me ๐Ÿ˜‰.

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Some selfies in Greifenstein

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  1. Love will find you when you stop looking, like money will find you when you stop chasing it. It seems to be how the universe (or god or …..) works, we get what we need or want in a moment when we expect it the least.

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    1. Well, it could find me then, as I’m not actively looking anymore ๐Ÿ˜‰.
      I’ve decided to focus on my health first. And to enjoy my hobbies and my loyal gall and see how it goes from there.
      But after having been looking for it, it did make me wonder if the person who may be best suitable, for lack of a better translation, if that person does exist ๐Ÿค”? Maybe I’ve been looking too much, wanting too much connection perhaps?
      Ah well, onwards with my health now ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿป live life to enjoy it and feel good ๐Ÿ€

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      1. Thank you ๐Ÿค—! And yeah, I do feel more at peace at the moment. My meds are still helping me and being off the antibiotics for almost a month also has restored my levels a tad. ๐Ÿ˜Š
        I still struggle with the pandemic, all the different rules and changes every few weeks. But thankfully I have some good (online) friends that keep me company by app, phone or in gaming. ๐Ÿ˜Š
        Thank you again!
        And I just read your latest journey post and wow….. Already eager to read the next bit! ๐Ÿ€

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